Why the “It’s Not Meant To Be” Mindset is Holding You Back

Author

Light Watkins
September 11, 2025

Why the “It’s Not Meant To Be” Mindset is Holding You Back

In the last episode, we explored when “going with the flow” actually holds you back.

This week, we’re looking at its close companion: the “it’s not meant to be” mindset.

It sounds spiritual. It sounds surrendered.

But it can be a cover for laziness—meaning, for not trying everything.

In this week’s Spiritual Perspective, I share the story of the fall of Constantinople.

As you listen, I invite you to imagine that Constantinople represents your old beliefs and habits that are no longer serving you.

It’s a powerful picture of how hard it can be to topple our own resistance to change—and the mindset shift it takes to finally overcome it (which is usually the opposite of “if it’s meant to be, it’ll be”).
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You’ll discover:

  • Why manifestation sometimes fails, no matter how hard you try

  • The hidden cost of spiritual laziness (and how to spot it in yourself)

  • How Constantinople was toppled by someone who dared to do the “impossible”

  • How to finally course correct in health, career, love, and finances

If you’ve ever wondered why manifestation isn’t working, this episode will give you the mindset shift you need.

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To your growth,

Light

P.S. I’ll be hosting a meditation workshop in Mexico City this fall. Space is limited, and tomorrow is the deadline for the early registration discount. Details are here.

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My passions include keynote speaking, leading meditation retreats, hosting my podcast, and writing self-help books, like Travel Light, Knowing Where to Look, Bliss More, and The Inner Gym. I’ve also got a thriving online community with fun challenges and masterclasses for becoming the best version of you. You can see more about me at lightwatkins.com or follow my journey on Instagram.